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December 24, 2020

Silvia.

We took a day trip with a tour company to a small town called Silvia located several hours south of Cali on the edge of the Cauca valley.  We had been eager to see more of the country since the 180-day lockdown kept us from leaving Cali and postponed any vacation plans. We wanted to minimize any health risks as best we could and, therefore, ended up doing a private tour through a local company. Going with the tour company also gave us the opportunity to have a local guide from the community and gain a better insight into the town and culture.

The mural could use a cleaning.
Greeting you as you arrive in the town of Silvia is this large sign with faces carved out of the side of the hill.  Silvia is known as a tourist destination because it is largely populated by an indigenous group of people called the Guambiano, or Misak.  They wear pretty distinct traditional clothing that includes a black bowler hat worn by men and women, as seen in the above rock carving. 

Looking over the beautiful valley just outside of Silvia.
The town sits at about 2800 meters above sea level and is situated in a picturesque corner of the Cauca valley high in the mountains.  You can visit the town pretty easily by taking a couple of buses, but because we had decided to take a private tour, we were able to avoid bus travel.  Having your own vehicle is nice when you are traveling with kids as you can stop whenever you want.  It's always the worst when a kid has to go pee while you are on a packed bus and the bathroom doesn't work (a common experience in Colombia).

Chiva buses in front of the central square church.
Maria, our local Misak guide, took us around the town and explained the culture to us.  She also happened to be an elected representative of the Misak community's government.  The Misak have autonomy over their land and largely create their own laws and governance.  They democratically elect leaders every year and they alternate the gender of the person eligible to be elected every year.  So one year the community will be led by a male representative and then the next year will be led by a female. A lot of the Misak culture seem to revolve around the balance between male and female emphasizing their equality, but also differences.  For example, the women wear blue shawls with black skirts, while the men wear black shawls with blue skirts.  It was a neat display of cohesion and harmony!

Hugs in Silvia.
We read some things online stating that the Misak don't like getting their picture taken. But our experience was a little bit different, largely (I assume) because we were accompanied by a local leader.  People were mostly indifferent to us and our picture taking and some even seemed to welcome it. Tourism used to be a substantial income generator for many people in the community, so I'm sure many were just happy to see any tourists.

Church at the top of the hill.
At one end of town, there is a hill with a Catholic church situated at the top of a steep staircase.  We could definitely feel the elevation as we climbed the steps.  The boys practically ran up the entire thing seemingly unaffected by the elevation, at first.  But as our trip wore on, there was soon cranky complaints of being tired, which I'm going to 100% blame the elevation for.  The church wasn't open so we couldn't see what the inside was like.  According to our guide, many of the Misak follow Catholicism or other Christian faiths although some still hold to more traditional beliefs.  There is no doubt some syncretistic practices in places also, which I always find fascinating.

Inside the famous Silvia market.
Along with learning about the Misak people and culture, Silvia is a popular destination for tourists because of its lively and traditional market.  Unfortunately (fortunately?), there were fewer people in the marketplace than normal when we visited due to COVID-19 restrictions, so it wasn't as busy and full of stalls as it should have been.  Many of the items on display are similar to things we can find in the markets in Cali, but there were a few interesting new fruits and vegetables, not to mention various products made from illicit plants (the Misak government allows the cultivation of plants that would be illegal elsewhere).  Those we didn't try - though maybe we should have taken advantage of it?  Kidding.

Brown potatoes, brown and pink potatoes, and pink fake potatoes.
Being high in the Andes and having connections to the Quechua peoples, potatoes and their many varieties are a staple in the region.  The little pink fingerling-looking things are not potatoes, but a pre-Columbian tuber called ullucus (pronounced "oo-yoo-kos").  You can find these all over Colombia, but we had yet to try them (since we had no idea what they were).  We bought some and brought them home to cook.  Similar to potatoes, you can boil or pan fry them and they are also commonly used in soups.  Their flavour is similar to beets, slightly sweet and earthy, but less strong.

Fruits, vegetables and masks.
Unbeknownst to us, the kids were not allowed in the market as a bio-security requirement, so we took turns between the two of us walking through it with our guide.  We bought some other fruits and things we had not tried yet to bring home.  The kids kept themselves busy playing soccer and fighting with each other in the charming central square.

You can practically see the pure mountain air.
We then headed out of town and even higher up the mountain, passing fields of poppies and hemp.  Surrounding Silvia are various small Misak community dwellings and farms.  We visited one woman's house to see what life is like high in the mountains.  We were encouraged by our guide to take of our masks, assuring us that the air was "pure of COVID" being up so high.  The crisp clean air, green mountains, elevation, and cranky kids made it all very breathtaking.

The quaint kitchen, in a smokey-blackened-in-soot sort of way.
We were invited into a smokey kitchen for some hot panela tea, a common Colombian drink made of unrefined cane sugar.  I'm not sure if the stove and oven worked or not, but there was a small campfire in the middle of the kitchen heating up water and smoking some mystery meat.  The Misak own and run their own water system, as well as many other services, including their own radio station.  They also have their own language, which they teach in their community-run schools in order to pass the tradition to younger generations.

Traditional Misak shovel and hose.
By this point the boys were pretty much done with the trip - but little did we know that the best was yet to come.  We headed back down the mountain to eat a late lunch at a restaurant beside the main river flowing through town.  Trout is a specialty in Silvia since it is cultivated there, so that is what we ate while overlooking the river.  We noticed that behind the restaurant in the middle of the river was an island that had been turned into a playground.  So it was all the boys could think about during the meal.

Everything fun is also a little dangerous.



After we ate, we headed down to the playground, crossing a bridge that was not up to Canadian safety standards (the best kinds of bridges), and arrived at an equally dangerous merry-go-round thing.  Human-powered, you sit or hang on to a rope and run around in circles until you build up enough steam that you can lift yourself up and practically soar over the river.  It was a lot of fun if you didn't think about the possible consequences.  Fortunately, no one got hurt and the kids loved it.

Us with our Misak guide, Maria.
That was pretty much our trip to Silvia.  We all fell asleep on the windy 3-hour trip back, stopping briefly on the side of the road for a false alarm puke of Judson's.  It was a nice little day outing during a time when we felt that we desperately needed to get out and enjoy a bit of the beauty and diversity of Colombia that the pandemic has been preventing us from experiencing.  Silvia was an interesting look at one of the lesser-known cultures and towns in Colombia.





March 31, 2020

christmas in canada.

It's about time for another blog post. It takes us a long time to get around to these. This one is about Christmas. It was two months ago. We are slow. Sorry.

Christmas morning stockings.
We had the pleasure (thanks to our wonderful parents) to visit Canada for a couple weeks over the Christmas break. We hadn’t planned to be back home this early, but it was a wonderful time seeing family and friends. We knew that we had limited time, and it was our vacation/Christmas, so we didn’t want to pack too much in trying to see and do everything. So we focused on family, church, and were lucky to connect with some friends – although we wish we could’ve have seen more. Apologies to everyone we didn’t get to see. But also, if you really wanted to see us you would come to Colombia.😜


Boys showing gingerbread men of themselves.
The main flight from Colombia to Canada flies overnight (leaving at 11:30pm) from Bogota to Toronto. Sleeping on a plane is always the worst, and I (Matt) am always too hot. This time I was lucky enough to have Judson lying on me the whole time, which made it even hotter. But we did make it eventually.

Boys love flying/screens.
We spent our first week in Vancouver. I forgot about how dark Vancouver can be during the wintertime. Our first few days it was rainy and overcast, and as a contrast to almost always sunny Cali, I kept thinking to myself, “Where is the sun?” But we eventually got to see the sun and it reminded us of how beautiful BC is. 


Lolo Frans and Judson with his new puzzle.
Before we left we brainstormed with the boys some of the things we wanted to see and do while at home. For the boys, the clear winner was to go to the aquarium as well as to eat sushi - two natural enemies. It was Judson’s birthday while we were in Vancouver so on that day, we headed downtown to the aquarium. It was extra nice for Kristin's cousin Hannah to come with us.

Classic aquarium pose.
Ceph Rogen, the resident octopus, coming out from hiding.
Of course, one of our favourite foods living in Vancouver was sushi. It is hard to find good sushi in Colombia, and what you can find is expensive, so we had to make sure we went to our old favourite sushi restaurant on Commercial Drive.


Sushi leftovers.
Family birthday party for Judson - lucked out and found the only Angry Birds cake in the Lower Mainland (probably).
Another highlight was seeing Melanie, Jess, Ryan, and the girls from our old community house – visiting them at the Brooksdale location of A Rocha Canada where Jess and Ryan now live. We grew close to and loved everyone who was a part of the community house over the years and there is a special bond with this group as the boys also had community members their age. It did not take 10 seconds before the kids were back where they left off. 

The old house back together. We miss these people.
Psuedo siblings.
It was a little bittersweet seeing life on the farm and being reminded of the things that we don't have in Colombia, like nature close by, simplicity, and homegrown food. I never took full advantage of our garden space and friends' gardening knowledge while at the community house (to be fair, we were pretty busy with everything in life) – but we sure miss benefiting by knowing Ryan, Jess, and Mel being experts at growing their own food. We definitely took advantage of the outdoors and nature when in Vancouver and that is probably one of the harder things about being in Cali. It's extra frustrating because we are, in theory, fairly close to beautiful nature living in one of the most biodiverse places in the world. But in practice, it's actually quite difficult to access these places and we don’t do it nearly as much as I wish I could. It is one of my goals this year to try to explore the outdoors more.

Life on the farm.
Taking a walk around Brooksdale.
The best part of being home is getting to spend time with family. We always look forward to Christmas breakfast and a big gathering with Kristin's family. There is usually no shortage of events happening. We took advantage of Kristin's cousin Josh's new townhouse where he hosted Christmas breakfast this year. The boys were very sad to leave Vancouver but we had to keep moving and see the other side of the family in Saskatoon.

Waiting for present-opening to begin.

Sad to leave.
We knew Saskatoon would be cold and that we wouldn’t be prepared for it. And we weren’t. But I (at least) love the cold. We went sledding a few times, something we only were rarely able to do in Vancouver when our street froze over – and definitely never in Colombia. I don’t know if Judson had ever really done it before. Of course, he loved it - at least until his hands and legs started to burn from the cold. Then he cried.


White powder!

Sledding. Somehow no one got hurt.
Saskatoon was lower key than Vancouver. With fewer friends to try to visit, it was nice to fill it with family activities. Being around family and watching the boys play with their cousins filled my heart. Under normal circumstances, we would have missed not being at the cabin this year, but I think we were all too busy enjoying just being together to really think about it.


It's not Christmas if we don't play crokinole.

Boys rock climbing while their cousin Knox takes a break.
And of course no trip to Saskatoon (or Christmas vacation) is complete without a visit to the Western Development Museum. Somehow, every time it still gets a little bit creepier (Depression-era Christmas robots not pictured).


Cousins rolling together.
Minecraft Lego face.
It was hard for us to leave but we did have some things to look forward to when heading back home to Colombia, like warm weather and routine. Unfortunately, our flight from Toronto to Bogota was delayed, and although we were originally scheduled to arrive and get to our hotel well before midnight on Dec 31st, we ended up being in the air when New Years struck. It was fun/annoying that they woke everyone up, turned on the lights, and counted down to midnight. Once we finally did get into Bogota, we were lucky enough to stay in one of the worst hotels I have ever booked (you're welcome, Family). Then Ezra got sick on the flight back to Cali. And then we all got sick getting home and needed at least a week to recover. So it all ended in disaster, as all good things do.

Cato Family.

Wall Family.

Colombia is known as the land of fruits, but they don't have Saskatoon berries. So really, what's the point?

It was all worth it for this home-made Saskatoon berry pie, though.

April 4, 2019

top 10: a few of our favourite things.

From the past seven months, in somewhat chronological order, here are the kids' favourite things about Colombia, so far:
1. Riding in taxis everywhere...without car seats!
2. Roasting marshmallows at our team retreat.
3. Feeding pigeons in Plaza de Bolivar, seeing Botero's "fat" paintings and sculptures, and riding the funicular up and down Monserrate in Bogotá.
Collage of images from Colombia
4. Having a pool in our apartment complex (even though the water is cold).
5. Spotting geckos in our house.
6. So many tropical fruits like granadilla, lulo, guanabana, mangostino, pitaya amarilla, and carambola.
Collage of images from Colombia
7. The Cali Zoo and seeing exotic animals and birds.
8. Putting candles on the sidewalk for Día de las Velitas to mark the beginning of the Christmas season.
9. Riding a willy jeep through the Cocora Valley that took us to see the world’s tallest palm trees.
10. Going to the beach and exploring the secret tunnels beneath Castillo de San Felipe de Barajas in Cartegena.

a season of change.

Overlooking the Cauca Valley, where Cali is located
Overlooking the Cauca Valley, where Cali is located
In case you didn't know, in the summer of 2018 both of us moved on from our jobs in Vancouver to accept a position with Mennonite Central Committee (MCC), a Christian nonprofit organization that engages in relief, development, and peacebuilding initiatives all over the world.  Last September, we made a big move to Cali, Colombia where we will be serving for three years as the Exchange Program and Communication Coordinators for MCC Colombia-Ecuador.  Our role mostly involves overseeing the one-year volunteer programs for young adults coming to serve in Colombia, as well as recruiting Colombians to serve in Canada, the U.S., and other countries around the world.  In addition, we will be working with our team communications and supporting one of our local MCC partners focused on peace education and community development.


The MCC Colombia-Ecuador team
The MCC Colombia-Ecuador team (11 admin staff & 11 short-term volunteers)
Both of us had lived and served abroad in the past and knew that living overseas was something we would do again in the future.  A few years ago, we felt it was time for us to explore international prospects which ended up being a four-year process.  We learned a lot about perseverance, faithfulness, and waiting on God’s timing.  God has been gracious to give us the opportunity to work with an organization that holds values and a holistic approach to serving others and living out the gospel with which we resonate.  We have felt affirmed that we made the right decision through our training and the first couple of months in our jobs.  Our kids were excited about plane rides and for the chance to see some exotic animals from the Amazon (although we have had to settle for the local zoo at this point).


Exploring a fountain during an MCC retreat
Exploring a fountain during an MCC retreat
We loved living in Vancouver, being a part of Grandview Calvary Baptist Church, and living in our community house with some great friends.  Living in East Van with other adults and kids is all our boys have known, so it is not without sadness that we have moved away.  Packing up, moving, and settling in Colombia has been a whirlwind these past several months for our family.  Our turnover was so quick (2 months!) from accepting the job to getting to orientation in Akron, Pennsylvania; we regret not being able to connect with so many of our friends before we left.  However, we would love to stay connected with you through email, social media, or regular (snail) mail. 

Overlooking the city of Cali
Overlooking the city of Cali
Please hold our family in your thoughts and prayers as we continue to settle into our new job, school, culture, and life.  We miss being close to our families and friends, but Colombia is slowly becoming home for us.  We anticipate at least a year of transition for us.  We have learned that although kids are resilient and this is an adventure for them too, they still have moments of homesickness and have hit some rough patches of adjustment themselves.  We have been grateful for God’s peace in the midst of everything.  Thank you for your continued support and friendship.

October 20, 2018

long time, no post.

Well, it's been five years since we last posted on this blog (we've got some major updating to do).  Life definitely ramped up after kid number one and blogging fell by the wayside.  But we're pulling this blog out of its dormant state and dusting it off so we could share updates, photos, and other random things to whoever cares to look at it because...

WE MOVED TO COLOMBIA!!  As in Pablo Escobar, Shakira, Sofia Vergara, and, of course, Juan Valdez.

At this point, we aren't quite ready with updates, but stay tuned and hopefully in the next little while, we'll get this show on the road.  Until then, here's a view of Bogotá...

View of downtown Bogotá skyline

June 22, 2013

twelve months.



Well, we did it.  Twelve months. The first year of this guy's life in monthly photographs.  I look back from the beginning and am blown away at the change.  He's a teeny little man now with a budding personality.  He's doesn't walk on his own yet, but is a crawling fiend.  He's stretching out but I guess he's still rocking the baby fat around his knees cause I can't believe he can crawl as fast as he can even on hard surfaces.  He's into pointing at everything...especially animals.  He's in love with dogs, probably cause his only cousin, so far, is one.  He's ecstatic when he sees Fischer, even though Fischer is less than enthusiastic to share the spotlight with this little human.

His first official word is "anana" translated "banana" which he goes ga ga over, too.  Actually, this kid loves eating, but he definitely has more of a sweet tooth even though he'll pretty much eat anything you put in front of him.  He also says "ma ma" and "da da" and we think he knows what those mean.  He seems to comprehend a lot more too.  The fun part is that we've been attempting to teach him sign language which I was quite skeptical would work.  But, it's actually working especially communicating around food.

(fast forward to 2018...So, it turns out that I never sent this post when I started writing it FIVE years ago!!  In attempt to resurrect this blog, I found this sitting in the drafts folder.  Oops.  So if it sounds incomplete, it is.  I definitely can't remember anything else about Ezra from when he was one so what is written above is all there is.  But the pictures are what really matter, don't you think.)